Escorts use lingo to communicate with clients. If you don’t understand the lingo, you might come off as rude. Complimenting your provider is a good way to make them feel appreciated.

Some people use escort services only for companionship, and others enjoy the sexual side of things as well. Regardless of what you want from your escort, these tips can help you have the best possible experience.

1. Look for escorts on social media

Despite the stigma associated with buying sex, escorts are not hard to find online. Many escorts have a profile on their own website, and some are listed in escort directories. But they also have fan pages on social media where they can broadcast themselves to potential clients.

If you’re interested in an escort’s photos, it’s important to do a little background research first. Check their photos on sites like The Erotic Review to make sure they’re legit. You can also use reverse image search on Google to verify a photo. It’s not foolproof, but it can help you avoid scammers.

Once you’ve found an escort that catches your eye, be patient and don’t send them multiple messages. This is a turnoff and will probably discourage them from working with you. Most escorts prefer a little advance notice when booking sessions, and last-minute messages are often ignored. Be respectful and considerate of their time, and you’ll have a better chance of booking a session with them. It’s not worth losing your chance for a good night out because you were too impatient to wait for an answer.

2. Be patient

When you finally reach out to a pro, do so only after you’ve verified her to your satisfaction, and have absorbed pertinent public information about rates, hours, etc. You should also be sure that you’re absolutely committed to a session before reaching out; last-minute messages or a lack of commitment might make her feel like she’s being taken advantage of or not valued.

Be patient when discussing your expectations, as you’ll likely be asked to provide references or other information that demonstrates your reliability and trustworthiness. If you’re unsure about something, ask; escorts are generally happy to clarify the details of an arrangement.

Once you arrive at the rendezvous point, pay promptly and courteously, as soon as she’s ready. Also, be sure to leave by the agreed-upon time. Lingering not only makes your escort uncomfortable, but it also costs you money if you’re overstaying your welcome. If you really enjoyed your session, ask to extend your time, but never insult her by saying things like, “Aren’t you getting a little old for this?” or, “You should get implants/surgery/weight loss.” This is simply not cool!

3. Don’t spam

Escorts are busy people, so it’s important to not spam them with messages. If you send an escort multiple messages before they confirm a booking, they may decide they don’t want to work with you. Additionally, if your message is filled with spelling errors or messy wording, it can give the impression you’re not a serious client. Finally, if it takes a sex worker ages to get all the information they need from you before they book, they’ll have less energy and enthusiasm for your time together. Keep these tips in mind when contacting escorts online, and you’ll have no trouble finding the perfect companion. Good luck!

This article was written by a professional freelance writer who works with a number of different companies, including several escort services.

4. Be discreet

It’s important to be discreet when booking an escort online. If you send messages that are filled with spelling errors, messy wording, or a lack of screening information, the worker may assume that you’re a time-waster and won’t agree to meet.

It also pays to be punctual when meeting your escort. If you arrive late, she might have already finished her session or she could be busy with another client. It’s best to plan ahead, leave a little early, and wait in your car or somewhere discreet.

It’s important to remember that prostitution is illegal. Therefore, you should never explicitly ask for or refer to sex services when speaking with your escort. This will put her off and can result in you being targeted for a law enforcement sting. You should also refrain from insulting her physical appearance or making negative comments about her age. Doing so can make her uncomfortable or even end the relationship. It’s also important to pay your escort in full at the beginning of your encounter. This will keep her happy and give her a better sense of security.